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Stop Looking Back into past

This time, you may have guessed about the blog. We are again about to discuss letting go of the past. This is not helping us, and it is true that many of us waste our time thinking about or thinking about correcting our past. This is even knowing that the time will not be the same or return,

We should discuss what we should do when we are trying to forget our past. Not everyone has difficulties or adverse experiences from our past. Many people have a lot of pleasant memories, but dwelling in the past won't help you sort those memories out. In this article, we will discuss the points shared in our web-story Stop looking back on https://web-stories.my-lekh.com

How to get rid of past

We all have a single life:

It is unnecessary to say that we live a single life. Whatever we dreamed of and whatever we aimed to accomplish in this life must be accomplished. Time is running at its own pace. If you want to move forward, you must decide whether you are determined to speed up or let your past drag you behind.

It is natural to have different priorities and energy levels at different stages of life. When we are kids, we need toys and the support of our parents; when we develop into adults, we start thinking about careers, life partners, and children, and finally, when we grow old, we are filled with regrets and unfulfilled desires.

All this happens because we get used to one sentence: "What were those days and slow down the pace of current life."

I'm not saying we shouldn't remember our fond and bad memories; we should. However, remember those memories, and don't let them interfere with your goals. Or waste your time.

You are not the only one with issues:

In spite of adverse conditions, there are many people in this world who are living with hope. It is, however, our inability to see others that is the real problem with us.

Whenever we think about our past problems, we create a cloud of fog around us. Despite knowing it has passed, we do not try to escape it. Put yourself in others' shoes and let the past fade away. You can learn from others' experiences if you take examples.

Find the purpose of your life:

Most of the time when you find someone dwelling on his or her past, they are those who don't have a clear goal in their lives. If you do not decide which road to take, you will keep looking at the roads you have already travelled. Every mentor and guide in your life will tell you this, but you should always pursue a dream or goal in your life. This will not only keep you from dragging yourself backward, but it will help you realize what you are capable of. Everyone around you has a purpose in their lives. It's your responsibility to choose yours if you haven't already.

Purpose of life

Always choose the forward direction:

It's always your choice but the law of nature says that you have to proceed in the forward direction. Speed is not a matter of concern when you have a clear goal in your mind. Every step is a bit closer to success, so even if you fall, you will cover a bit more ground. In every situation, it is true that if you focus on a goal, it requires a lot of energy and doesn't let you think of anything else. But if you divide your attention and efforts, you will regret it for the rest of your life.

Stop trying to correct your past mistakes:

Regret can steal your attention, your happiness, and your chance of living a peaceful life. It is inevitable for us all to regret many things in our lives, but it is not necessary to try to correct our mistakes or atone for them for the rest of our lives. It might be possible to heal a few pains of your life by doing this, however, eventually you will come to regret something causing time to slip away from your present.


Your past can't define your capabilities:

The most detrimental effect of dwelling on the past is that a person starts doubting his own capabilities and willpower. Most of the time, he thinks about the time when he failed or was responsible for a failure. You have crossed that time and you have learned a lot since then.

Remind yourself to keep moving forward and not backward.

Despite the possibility, that you might be able to recall those times when you were healthier, wealthier, or smarter than you are now if you believe they can all be restored, think carefully. You can only keep what you have; if you are trying to get that status back, think differently. It was all in your past, and now you can have a better future by working hard today.


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