Trust is the key factor for every long lasting relationship. Without trust no one can maintain a relationship. To become trustworthy is our prime responsibility to build any relationships. Parents have a trust on their child that he will do good deeds and should respect them,
a child have a trust on their parents that they will protect him at every situation, a girl have a trust on his boyfriend that he will never cheat him and make her feel comfortable at every situation similarly two friends have trust on each other that they will not disclose their secrets to any other.
But in this article I will talk about the trust between a devotee and the mighty. This is the purest form of relation that occurs between God and us which is built by faith only. Every devotee must have a full faith on his God that he had given you what is meant for you.
Trust the process of God
Trust is the main component in every relationship, if you want a long lasting relationship then have faith in your partner and never cheat them. But talking about the trust between God and us is incredible. Our real parents are god only, the parents who gave us birth are our parents in this world only, nothing goes with us even our parents, our wives and friends leave us alone at this stage.
In this world no one can love us like our parents do, but if you are in love with your god then you don't need anyone's company, As if God is with you. The mighty who gave us life, who gave us all things doesn't demand anything in return. He just asks for love and trust. You need to trust the process of God, then everything will be fine, and a pessimistic attitude will be removed from your life.
Many might know about the term 'Amrit Vela' from your grandparents or your parents. The Amrit Vela starts from 3Am and ends at 6am. This is the time when God prays too, and fulfils all the wishes of the devotees who pray at Amrit Vela. In every religion Sikh, Hindu, muslim or Christianity, the Amrit Vela or morning time has an importance.
According to our ancestors, when we pray to our god between the time 3Am to 6 Am, God is very near to us and takes out every problem from our life. If you are the one who is blessed with Amrit Vela, then please maintain it till your last breath. You will never face any difficulty in your life.
Whenever something wrong happens in our life we always try to blame the second person or God. But we didn't know this wrong happened because of our deeds only. And everything happens for a reason only, there is always a good thing behind every wrong happenings. We just have to trust our God, whatever he does there is some reason behind it.
We always question God that why he had made us like this or that? Why did he take this thing from us? Why does this happen to me? But trust me there is always a good thing behind it. Also many people complain that we are doing prayers and still we are facing difficulties in our lives. I will clear you this, God had planned earlier about this. It happens because of your earlier deeds.
If God had given us all the things, who is the creator of this whole universe, didn't know what is good or bad for you? If he had the power of giving, then he had the power of knowing also. The main thing is that we are unaware about what things are beneficial for us, we don't know what we want in our lives.
And when God takes actions then we are not in favour of the result. Only God is the one in this whole universe where the give and take relationship is not applied. I mean to say that God never demands anything in return, he only gives us whatever is good for us. Rest all other relationships, even our parents, are a give and take relationship. So always pray to God, not when you are in difficulty but also when you are happy.
Trust the process not the outcome
If you are doing any task for the first time, like doing a start-up, freelancing, or any of the new tasks. Then you must have belief in yourself that you can achieve it, you must trust the process but not expect the outcome. It doesn't mean that you are not analysing what you are doing.
It means that if you are doing any good deed or any new task then don't expect anything. As expectations lead to heartbreak. If you are expecting that if you are doing this task you will definitely get success, then it's wrong if there will be a failure then it will lead to heartbreak or depression. And of course you will feel bad about yourself, that you are doing the right thing and suddenly bad things happen to you.
Similarly take the name of the god and don't expect that everything that happens to you will also be good. Just pray to god, failures are a part of my life and give me strength to fight against them.
About The Author:
Noor Mehta, a 19-year-old from Punjab India. As a student of management, she became a blogger when she was 18 years old. She loves to read and has an optimistic outlook on life. She is eager to express her feelings and thoughts through my-lekh.com for the first time. She has rich experience working with different niche websites.
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